Overdue Update

So much going on. So many emotions around it all.

I had my second TURBT on September 25. This time, they did a catheter and Cysview blue light dye. It lights up any cancer cells. The intention was to make sure there was no regrowth. They did find a tiny (3mm) hanging tumor. They're not sure if it was regrowth or if they missed it the first time. They did scrape it out. Post-op was harder this time, and more gross (though I'll spare you the details). I'm just glad they got it out.

It's hard to imagine another tumor growing in a mere six weeks. But it's also hard to imagine any tumor could have been missed after an ultrasound, a cystoscopy, and a TURBT. I'm not so much concerned with why it was there. I just want to know if it's going to happen again. Of course, there is no way to know that.

The pathology on the tumor is the same. Slow-growing, early stage. So Dr. H. says if it does regrow, it will likely be slow-growing too. My next cystoscopy is in early January. So now to pray and pray and pray some more that there are no new tumors then. IF there were any new tumors, we'd likely treat with medication (something new that's replacing Mytomicin and has bad side effects but ones that aren't as bad as the side effects of Mytomicin).

So the bladder cancer is under control for now and we've got approval to move ahead with the BRCA stuff.

So... my oophorectomy is on November 17. Removal of my ovaries and fallopian tubes. It's a relatively short outpatient surgery. I expect I'll be working from home the following week and then back to work.

And my mastectomy and DIEP flap reconstruction are now scheduled for February 2. It's expected to be an 8-10 hour surgery with 3-5 days in the hospital afterward. I expect to take vacation days for the time I'm in the hospital and then work from home until I am comfortable to go back to the office. Drains, worry of infection, being allowed to drive... it's a lot to coordinate.

I have a ton of doctor appointments between November 3 and February 14. Pre-op assessment visits, pre-op surgeon visits, surgeries, post-op visits, mammogram, film consultation, cystoscopy. Two days in a row in January, I have three appointments each day. In Ann Arbor. But at least it's not six separate trips there.

Physically I'm fine. Emotionally, I'm up and down. I'm scared of such a long surgery, I'm afraid of dying during surgery, I'm afraid to tell my kids about the BRCA stuff, but I'm so excited to eliminate some risk and greatly reduce other risk. This is such a hard road.

So there you go. More than you wanted to know, more than I want to deal with. My reality.